1 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:07,958 [indistinct conversation] 2 00:00:14,041 --> 00:00:18,667 -[conversation continues] -[plates clatter] 3 00:00:32,959 --> 00:00:39,626 Jamie. Put that thing away and come and talk to the guests. 4 00:00:44,209 --> 00:00:45,918 Go on. 5 00:00:45,917 --> 00:00:48,292 [sighs] 6 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:51,082 -Alright, little man? -Yeah. 7 00:00:51,082 --> 00:00:53,625 -How you doing, guys? Alright? -All good. 8 00:00:53,625 --> 00:00:55,958 -I see. -Yeah! 9 00:00:56,834 --> 00:00:59,417 -Here we are. -Oh, Mum! 10 00:00:59,417 --> 00:01:02,209 -[phone buzzes] -I know it's not homemade. 11 00:01:02,209 --> 00:01:03,542 [laughter] 12 00:01:03,542 --> 00:01:06,667 I think it will still be tasty. 13 00:01:08,918 --> 00:01:12,250 -Do you have a lighter? -[man] Yeah. 14 00:01:12,250 --> 00:01:13,125 There we go. 15 00:01:13,125 --> 00:01:16,584 [woman] You haven't opened all your presents yet. 16 00:01:16,584 --> 00:01:18,542 Such self-restraint. 17 00:02:19,876 --> 00:02:22,501 [man] You must be Jamie. 18 00:02:23,501 --> 00:02:25,375 I'm sorry I'm late. 19 00:02:25,375 --> 00:02:29,125 It took a lot longer to get here than I thought. 20 00:02:29,125 --> 00:02:31,082 I'm glad you made it. 21 00:02:31,459 --> 00:02:34,167 Last guy didn't even show. 22 00:02:34,626 --> 00:02:36,209 I'm Ben. 23 00:02:36,959 --> 00:02:39,209 Jamie. 24 00:02:40,667 --> 00:02:43,167 You look like your pics. 25 00:02:43,167 --> 00:02:45,082 Is that a compliment? 26 00:02:45,082 --> 00:02:48,751 Some guys don't even look like their pics. 27 00:02:48,751 --> 00:02:51,667 Well, I don't feel I look like myself. 28 00:02:51,667 --> 00:02:55,709 I, um... I went out last night to The Glory 29 00:02:55,709 --> 00:02:57,876 with some friends, so... 30 00:02:57,876 --> 00:03:01,417 I don't really go out to gay pubs. 31 00:03:02,250 --> 00:03:04,959 So what have you been up to? 32 00:03:04,959 --> 00:03:08,876 I was surprised you said we should meet. 33 00:03:09,082 --> 00:03:14,417 Well... I didn't really have anything better to do. 34 00:03:22,334 --> 00:03:27,334 You know, you can be chatting to a guy and chatting and chatting, 35 00:03:27,334 --> 00:03:30,501 but when it actually comes to meet... 36 00:03:31,167 --> 00:03:34,334 Well, the flirting? I hate it. 37 00:03:34,334 --> 00:03:37,334 I thought that only happened to me. 38 00:03:37,334 --> 00:03:40,792 No... It happens to everybody. 39 00:03:45,417 --> 00:03:47,792 They don't know, do they? 40 00:03:47,792 --> 00:03:49,209 No. 41 00:03:49,209 --> 00:03:51,292 Not all of them, anyway. 42 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:53,542 I remember 43 00:03:53,542 --> 00:03:58,000 when my friends first saw me get pulled by a guy at a party. 44 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:01,751 You know, it wasn't anything at the time. 45 00:04:01,751 --> 00:04:03,918 Till the next morning when I realized 46 00:04:03,918 --> 00:04:06,501 they'd put everything on Facebook. 47 00:04:06,501 --> 00:04:07,375 -No... -Everything. 48 00:04:07,375 --> 00:04:09,626 And my sister obviously saw the photos 49 00:04:09,626 --> 00:04:14,082 and didn't realize I was actually seeing guys then, so... 50 00:04:14,082 --> 00:04:15,584 That's rough. 51 00:04:15,584 --> 00:04:16,542 Yeah. 52 00:04:16,541 --> 00:04:18,583 Yeah, and I was 17. 53 00:04:18,584 --> 00:04:23,918 What happened to that guy? Was he your boyfriend or did he... 54 00:04:24,918 --> 00:04:26,417 No. 55 00:04:28,584 --> 00:04:30,709 What about you? 56 00:04:30,709 --> 00:04:31,459 What about me? 57 00:04:31,459 --> 00:04:34,875 Well, you said not all of your friends know, so... 58 00:04:34,875 --> 00:04:36,541 I'm assuming someone knows. 59 00:04:36,541 --> 00:04:37,875 -My dad knows. -Yeah? 60 00:04:37,875 --> 00:04:41,500 He told me not to tell my younger brother. 61 00:04:41,500 --> 00:04:42,416 Eesh! 62 00:04:42,416 --> 00:04:45,082 No wonder you wanted to leave. 63 00:04:46,250 --> 00:04:48,166 [chuckles] 64 00:04:48,541 --> 00:04:50,250 OK, alright, um... 65 00:04:50,250 --> 00:04:53,709 What about... What about your first guy? 66 00:04:57,584 --> 00:04:58,918 You really wanna know? 67 00:04:58,918 --> 00:05:01,876 Yeah. I really wanna know. 68 00:05:07,166 --> 00:05:08,875 Well... 69 00:05:10,125 --> 00:05:13,250 There was this guy from school, 70 00:05:13,250 --> 00:05:14,918 called John. 71 00:05:15,584 --> 00:05:17,667 We used to do everything together. 72 00:05:17,666 --> 00:05:19,750 You know, we were close. 73 00:05:21,500 --> 00:05:25,375 He used to love football. I hated it, but... 74 00:05:25,584 --> 00:05:28,334 I liked going to watch him play. 75 00:05:29,166 --> 00:05:32,125 So what was it about this guy? 76 00:05:32,666 --> 00:05:34,208 [sighs] 77 00:05:34,834 --> 00:05:36,959 It was this look. 78 00:05:38,209 --> 00:05:40,292 When he looked at me it was... 79 00:05:40,291 --> 00:05:44,125 It was like he was looking right through me. 80 00:05:46,584 --> 00:05:48,417 Anyway... 81 00:05:48,416 --> 00:05:53,666 So after one of his games we were walking through the park 82 00:05:53,666 --> 00:05:57,125 to go and have a smoke like we used to. 83 00:05:58,709 --> 00:06:00,042 And... 84 00:06:00,041 --> 00:06:04,541 I don't know if it was him or it was me or... 85 00:06:05,250 --> 00:06:07,834 But we got closer... 86 00:06:10,166 --> 00:06:12,416 and we kissed. 87 00:06:15,875 --> 00:06:16,625 Um... 88 00:06:16,625 --> 00:06:17,500 And we were by this fence. 89 00:06:17,500 --> 00:06:23,459 Behind the fence there were these guys from school and... 90 00:06:23,875 --> 00:06:28,666 They just started shouting and laughing. 91 00:06:31,209 --> 00:06:33,918 And John just bolted. 92 00:06:38,334 --> 00:06:41,875 We didn't really speak much after that. 93 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:52,500 Cool. 94 00:06:54,209 --> 00:06:56,000 Alright... 95 00:06:56,291 --> 00:07:00,875 Well, it was... It was really nice to chat. 96 00:07:01,334 --> 00:07:03,167 Yeah, it was. 97 00:07:05,625 --> 00:07:09,125 Well, I'll see you around. 98 00:07:09,875 --> 00:07:12,125 Yeah, see you around.